Dinner was on the table, and as part of our evening routine, both dogs were happily engaged with their nightly chewies. Deuce had settled into his treat, while Rio was lingering nearby—clearly monitoring the situation, as if anticipating an opportunity. Sure enough, I caught a glimpse from the corner of my eye: Deuce walked into…
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Understanding Barking: What Is Your Dog Really Saying?
For many people, a barking dog is one of the most frustrating and misunderstood aspects of canine behavior. It often feels intrusive, unpredictable, and even stressful—especially in environments where quiet is expected or preferred. But barking, when viewed through a behaviorally informed lens, isn’t just “noise.” It’s communication. And like any form of communication, barking…
How to Manage Prey Drive and Build Trust
I’m working with Jim, a soft-spoken gentleman, and his lively Border Collie mix, Spark. Jim called me because Spark has been chasing the chickens whenever they roam outside their coop. Jim’s goal? Stop the stalking and chasing—plain and simple. As a first-time dog owner, Jim is still learning the ropes of “dogness.” Working with Spark…
Choosing Kindness Over Fear: A Delivery Day Lesson
Today, I’m waiting for a home delivery. Both dogs are crated in my office as requested. When the delivery person knocks, Rio immediately starts barking—curious and frustrated she can’t say hello. Deuce joins in once he hears the commotion. I pause, then enter calmly, praising them for being quiet. But Rio starts barking again. I…
What Dogs Teach Us About Everyday Negotiations
I’ve written before about why the old idea of dogs as “pack animals” blindly following a dominant “pack leader” is not only incorrect but harmful to dogs. Today, I want to focus on something more subtle and fascinating: the daily social negotiations dogs engage in with each other. Yes, social dominance does exist in animal…
Mastering the Art of “Wait”: A Must-Have Skill for Every Dog
Teaching your dog to “wait” — whether it’s before dashing out the front door or jumping out of the car seat — is one of the most valuable lessons you can offer your furry friend. This simple yet powerful command does more than just prevent chaos; it can literally save your dog’s life. Beyond safety,…
When “Obedience” Isn’t So Simple: Rethinking Our Expectations for Dogs
When “Obedience” Isn’t So Simple: Rethinking Our Expectations for Dogs I was reading a new client’s intake form recently, and an internal alarm went off. The client emphasized that having an “obedient” dog was their top priority. I get it—who doesn’t want a well-behaved dog? But what does “obedient” really mean? By definition, obedience means…
Should You Share Your Bed with Your Dog?
A question I often hear is whether it’s “okay” to let a dog sleep in bed with you. The answer is deeply personal and varies widely. Many people love sharing their bed with their dogs, while others prefer not to—sometimes without knowing how to gently discourage their dogs from taking over the bed. Addressing Common…
Reinforcement Over Intimidation: A Lesson in Positive Training
Today, as I waited at home for a delivery, I found myself navigating a common challenge: managing my dogs’ excitement while ensuring a calm environment. Before the delivery arrived, both Rio and Deuce were crated in my office, as per our usual routine. When the knock on the door came, Rio immediately began barking, likely…
Decoding the Bark
After a productive sheepherding session with Deuce, we returned home, and I got back to work in my office. Before long, I heard an unusual bark from him. Assuming he might be with John, whose office is on the opposite side of the house, I called out to check. John said Deuce wasn’t with him,…










