This morning I’m juggling Frisbees and the last bit of my motivation to get the dogs moving. Deuce and Rio are buzzing with excitement—or so I think. I lob the first Frisbee for Deuce, and he just stares at me, like, “Really? What do you want me to do with this?” Yesterday he was a…
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When Your Dog Says “No”: The Growl Diaries and Why Writing it Down Matters
If you’ve ever been growled at by your dog, you know it’s a feeling somewhere between confusion, guilt, and “Did I just offend a small, four-legged tyrant?” Recently, I had the chance to work with a couple whose Basset Hound had decided to make growling a regular part of his vocabulary. What started as a…
When Allergies and Dogs Collide: Thoughtful Solutions for the Whole Family
Allergies can be deeply disruptive, especially when they affect our relationships with beloved family pets. When someone in the household develops an allergy to dogs, physicians often recommend a range of actions—some of which can significantly affect your dog’s well-being. Common medical recommendations include: While these suggestions may help minimize allergic reactions, they are often…
When Life Changes, Don’t Forget the Dog
In our daily lives, we constantly make decisions that balance the needs of others—children, friends, parents, and yes, our pets. But when one of the individuals affected by our decisions can’t speak up, their needs may be overlooked. That silent participant is often the family dog. When we change routines or lifestyles, we may unintentionally…
Dogs, Pants, and the Art of Being Honest About Who They Really Are
Morning chaos. I’m in the middle of my usual AM routine — dogs fed, coffee somewhere on the way, and I’m hustling to get out the door. John is in town, toggling between his home office and the kitchen, while the dogs — in true form — are already on post-breakfast patrol. Once their bowls…
Chew Time Turns Tense: A Real-Life Lesson in Resource Guarding
Dinner was on the table, and as part of our evening routine, both dogs were happily engaged with their nightly chewies. Deuce had settled into his treat, while Rio was lingering nearby—clearly monitoring the situation, as if anticipating an opportunity. Sure enough, I caught a glimpse from the corner of my eye: Deuce walked into…
Understanding Barking: What Is Your Dog Really Saying?
For many people, a barking dog is one of the most frustrating and misunderstood aspects of canine behavior. It often feels intrusive, unpredictable, and even stressful—especially in environments where quiet is expected or preferred. But barking, when viewed through a behaviorally informed lens, isn’t just “noise.” It’s communication. And like any form of communication, barking…
How to Manage Prey Drive and Build Trust
I’m working with Jim, a soft-spoken gentleman, and his lively Border Collie mix, Spark. Jim called me because Spark has been chasing the chickens whenever they roam outside their coop. Jim’s goal? Stop the stalking and chasing—plain and simple. As a first-time dog owner, Jim is still learning the ropes of “dogness.” Working with Spark…
Choosing Kindness Over Fear: A Delivery Day Lesson
Today, I’m waiting for a home delivery. Both dogs are crated in my office as requested. When the delivery person knocks, Rio immediately starts barking—curious and frustrated she can’t say hello. Deuce joins in once he hears the commotion. I pause, then enter calmly, praising them for being quiet. But Rio starts barking again. I…
What Dogs Teach Us About Everyday Negotiations
I’ve written before about why the old idea of dogs as “pack animals” blindly following a dominant “pack leader” is not only incorrect but harmful to dogs. Today, I want to focus on something more subtle and fascinating: the daily social negotiations dogs engage in with each other. Yes, social dominance does exist in animal…